Think falling in love and living happily ever after is a fantasy? Join Janet for some fun with the serious intent to make your dream a reality. Janet emphasizes heart and brain - an emotionally intelligent approach to finding your mate. Attitude really is everything. Where you go is important. But who you are when you go, and how you make use of opportunities is more important.

It is difficult to find a soul mate if you don't know your own soul. Start with knowing yourself. Then set up your shopping list for what you want and need in a mate. And don’t forget to add your non-negotiables to the list.

Your true love will never drop from the ceiling above your couch. Get out of the house. To be committed, courted, or even dated, you have to let people meet you. Be credible, be effective, and be charming. If your dating compares to the fun of funeral attendance, you are dooming your chance of success. Most importantly get the right attitude. Where you go is important. But who you are when you go, and how you make use of opportunities is more important.

Learn to avoid pitfalls, fight fear, put your new show on the road, know when to quit, and how to recognize a keeper. Isn't your future mate too important to leave to chance?